John Lennon wisely said "life is what happens when you're making other plans." "You may nod sagely at this," says Liz, "but the real consequences of not taking leadership in your own life are that you end up on your deathbed thinking "I really wish I had done XYZ" or facing an overwhelming feeling that you've just played it all too safe.

So what are the signs that you're just not a leader in your own life?